Seeing the Celino and Barnes Play

Tell us about the last thing you got excited about. I rarely see community theater despite enjoying almost every performance I see. A few weeks ago, I looked up things to do in NYC, and saw that there was an advertisement for a play about two lawyers breaking up. Intriguing. I clicked in, not quiteContinue reading “Seeing the Celino and Barnes Play”

Blame, Judgement Day, Polite Society

Everyone wants to be able to judge other people, but few want to be placed on the scale. There are three ways to resolve this tension. The first is to say no holds barred, everyone can judge everyone. This strategy is one that typically helps those on the bottom because it allows for exchange withoutContinue reading “Blame, Judgement Day, Polite Society”

Evil Twins, or not owning your contrarian takes

Some of your takes are better than others, and in today’s climate, anyone is at risk bi-directionally. While it may be comfortable to talk about intolerance in the general abstract sense, heaven forbid someone actually expresses a belief that’s currently unfashionable. In the meantime, the rest of us have to figure out how to communicateContinue reading “Evil Twins, or not owning your contrarian takes”

Avoiding Gatekeeping The Mole

As someone who considers himself apt at the deceptive arts, I think the Mole is one of the most entertaining shows on television. This is because unlike other reality shows, people have to be openly deceptive. The winners require the ability to maintain competitive advantage and understand other people’s theory of mind. It’s cerebral andContinue reading “Avoiding Gatekeeping The Mole”

Mustache Rebellion

I come from a shaved face family. Our family’s traditions prize cleanliness, eight-blade razors, and moisturizing. I stand athwart the razor, yelling “Stop!” While I cooperate removing the stubble elsewhere on my face, I preserve the idiosyncratic mustache. I’ve robbed the world of another clean-shaven face. I’m able to distinguish myself from other people. IContinue reading “Mustache Rebellion”

Juicy Details Not Contained

Some of the most interesting content is salacious and downright scandalous. I’d like to imagine myself brave enough to admit things I’m not proud of about myself on my blog, but the prospect is terrifying. The more benefit I get from engaged readers, I lose from having people who aren’t pleased with my choices seeingContinue reading “Juicy Details Not Contained”